How can I get rid of this fetish?!
Question:
How can I get rid of this fetish?
First off, thanks to anyone who answers me.
I have a fetish, a tickling fetish. I've had it for, man, as long as I can remember. It's specifically tickling girl's feet, and I find it as a sexual turn on. Unfortunately, it's gotten to the point to where I don't find sex as appealing as tickling. I know I'm straight, I'm not worried about my sexuality, but...I'm afraid that I'll never be able to experience the pleasure of sex on my marriage night, you know? Is there a way to rid myself of this?
My parents, they tell me that I just have to stop thinking about it and it'll go away. It isn't that simple though...I can go for, like a month, but then I just can't hold it back and it's off to the races (for lack of a better phrase). I refuse to accept this as part of me, I can't. I feel wrong for having it, I never asked for this and I don't want it. I hate this fetish, and all I want is to be like other guys, normal. I want to experience the pleasure of sex, to not be turned on by tickling.
Answers:
The fetish isn't a problem in itself, but the dominance of it in your life is. You should seek a sex therapist for counseling. You said it: you "don't want it."
I'm not judging. People are into all different kinds of things. But if you are uncomfortable, then you've got to something about it.