Do you ever get to this point?!
Question:
Do you ever get to this point?
Hey, I am feeling like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, im 24 and feel like my life is over. Everyday seems the same, everyone is the same, places are the same, everything just sucks. Things seem like there moving 2 mph and id like things to hurry up...Please dont say im depressed, and need a doctor, ive been through that, im not taking pills to live. I have been reading alot of self-help books, and just seen the secret, which was good, but i still feel like life is so boring an dumb.Im just wondering if anyone else has ever left like this and how did you get over it?
Answers:
I am 37 and may be able to help......
the place you are in right now is very dangerous....
We as humans,grow in cycles,in other words,we learn,or take things in subconciously for a period of time,then our minds eventually decide what to take in as a permanent change,or what to discard as "undoable",or harmful.
during these assimilation periods,we are in kind of a "limbo".
Its almost we have been knocked out of gear and are now in nuetral.....Then after a week,or even a few weeks,we kick back into gear having fully applied the things learned to our life..
Right now,you are in "nuetral"..While I know that this sucks,at least you have this..............(keep reading)
Most people go through life unaware of themselves.These are what we call "followers"
they only know what they are taught and told,they are unable to take learned information and turn it into their own asset through self analysis and self application...ex..a man or woman can be taught to operate a knife to trim fat off of a piece of meat,but it takes a special,more intelligent person to teach themselves(using that info)to become a great meat carver...so will you just trim fat day after day,or will you become the great carver?
YOU ARE BLESSED WITH A GREATER SELF AWARENESS!!!!
You are one of the few who are destined to be a leader and a teacher,but this self awareness can also be a curse without the proper guidance..
the stage you are in right now,is the stage most people face before making life altering decisions......
Be patient with yourself and let your mind do the work that you know it can do!!!!
some examples........
1.the man who loses himself for a few weeks and decides that he is gay,then after his mind comes back to full functionality,he has already gotten a sex change!!!
2.the woman who loses herself for a few weeks,then quits her job to get in touch with nature,,then after her mind comes back to full functionality,she has sold everything and is now living in a tent on a river in africa,looking around wonderind what the hell hit her!!!Hard to come back from something like that!!!!
3.the man who loses himself for a few weeks,,decides he doesnt love his wife anymore and leaves,,,,now his family is ruined forever,his kids grow up without a dad and his wife jumps from man to man trying to find what he has taken away from her,,,,,when his mind comes back to full functionality,,his life is destroyed!!!!!!He wants it all back,but there is no way to recover from these terrible decisions!!!!
The examples go on and on,but you already know what I am trying to convey to you,dont you........
Be aware that this is only a phase and that it will pass..Soon you will be so busy,you wont have time to worry about these things anymore,,the trick is to NOT make any life altering decisions until you are sure that your mind and goals are back on track.....
In the meantime,,try to ease up on the self analysis,as you are better than that......
Finding a hobby,or seeking nature,or traveling,or doing artsy things are all ok,but they wont help to keep yoiu focused on what you really need to do....And you KNOW what it is that you really need to do,you are just trying to avoid it for some reason.......
feel free to contact me again if you need any support,,,click on my picture and then on the link to my 360 blog and leave me a mssg,then I will be happy to talk to you some more...
Robert.