I want to run away from home?!


Question:

I want to run away from home?

Im tired of the bullshit at home. Im tired of me cause i hate myself. Knowbody understands my problems!!!!


Answers:

There is a great deal of frustration that can come from parents who are busy, not listening or truly do NOT understand. It sounds like you are trying really hard to please them or fit in with friends.

I think since you pointed out that the house is difficult and no one understands that we should take those two things and just accept them. You can't change your home and you cant change THEM. If they don't get it - they just don't get it. If they live crazy - THEY live crazy.

The more important point is the one about hating yourself - now that one YOU have control over it. It is also a great place to start. Begin with any personal space you are allowed to have in your home. Clean it up, decorate, or move it around some if you are allowed.

Next, start setting some goals beginning with small things like fixing your hair differently or buying a new outfit. If your parents won't let you, look for creative items to use for jewelry or fun things to make you feel better.

After that - pick up some hobbies. Go to a near by library, get crafts, get a small paint set and paint. Do anything that is fun.

Last thing you should is start getting involved at your school, local charity, church or non-profit organization. (You can also check the newspaper for free things to do.) The point is for you to have activities that have adults around who are involved and a chance for you to make new friends.

Check out the friends you have and get rid of any of them who are negative, talk to you about hating yourself, put you down or are also upsetting. If you have trouble making friends, adults running activities can help.

In short - ignore things at home, stop trying to change them, and do everything in your power to stay safe and block out bad comments or words.

Start focusing on you and start loving yourself. Think of your future when you can go away to college. Student loans are open for ANYONE. Study and get out as fast as you can, but running is never a good choice.




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