Is it normal of a 24 year man to jerk off...all the time, even in his sleep?!
Question:
Is it normal of a 24 year man to jerk off...all the time, even in his sleep?
It has been almost a year since my boyfriend moved in with me. I am almost 6 months pregnant, and finding it difficult and painful to have intercourse. But we still manage at times.
I know you gotta do what ya gotta do but gezz. He will be sleeping and I will find him J/off. He watches porn sitting on the sofa and J/off when I am sleeping. He will cook bbq and J/off. He can't smoke in the house so he will sit by the door smoking and J/off.
I have told him many times I think this is nasty, to grow up, to do it in the shower. He went to buy himself porn, pumps, anal pumps. Any toy he can masturbate with he has.
Last night he went out for a smoke outside, he was taking a little long so I went out. To find him J/off. When I confronted him about it he tells me I am seeing things, he is not doing that. That I was a B*%&h and lots of other names. I snapped and we fought.
Is this normal? Or am I over reacting? Do men that age still J/off any chance the get?
HELP PLS What do I do???
Answers:
It sounds like he has a sexual addiction to it, just like someone else might have to food or to drugs.
The sleep part is actually normal, but not the other parts...
There's a 12-step group called "Sex and Love Addicts, Anonymous." It would help you both if he'd go. The problem is, like other addicts he is starting in denial. Ask a mutual friend or clergy or therapist or doctor for help in getting him to go. You may need to confide in someone closer to him, like in your family or his family, if needed.