Wives and mothers............?!

Wives and mothers............?

I am so fed up its not even funny. My husband is bi-polar and let me tell you the last couple months have not be easy to say the least. last night was the straw that broke the camles back, I told my husband wht I really thought and he didnt like it. I woke up this morning to him not being home I called his cell and he finally came home, I dont know what to do anymore I love him and we have kids but the way he acts is horrible. My kids dont typicaly see him yelling or anything like that. He comes home after work and just yells at me for the stupidiest stuff. I am at wits end I dont know what to do. So my question is who else has a husband like this , what do you do ? How do you cope?

for example... he came home last night at 2 am after going out with his friends to see a movie ( which was fine with me ) Our daughter herd him and started crying for a bottle he decides that he is in the write to wake me up and start bi*ching me out because of this

~ he is on meds and sees a doc

Bi-Polarism is NOT a license to be an A__Hole.

I am a high functioning Bi-Polar and even though my husband and I have had some rough times, I ALWAYS made sure I dealt with behaviors that made his life painful. There is a lot of responsibility dealing with this malady and your husband needs to be a REAL PERSON and step up to HIS plate of crap.

I have had this since I was a child. I am productive, artistic, a reverend, counselor and a writer. My husband is relatively happy and without much stress at all now. I am on the minimal of meds and do well on them.

It is ME who has the responsibility to deal with this disease and create a good life around me. Tell your husband I said, "Grow the hell up and take responsibility for HIS disease and care of HIS family!"