How can i deal with masturbation?!
Question:
How can i deal with masturbation?
It happens when lonely and when stressed.I think its because of the fatherly love i have missed.It also happens most of the time when i think about a boy who has ever caressed me.Its horrible and destroying my relationship with men.
Answers:
jesus one word about masterbation and the god squad are out...
LISTEN: Masterbation is NOT wrong...I do it when I am lonely.
I do it when Im stressed and cant get to sleep...I do it when Im on my period and I do in front of my husband!! and My dad wasn't around but guess what self love has nothing to do with missing out on fatherly love...woman masterbate regardless if farthers are around or not...
Now on to your second point:
if your saying you feel that you cannot be initmate with a man and only masterbate then thats more of a problem becuase you may have initmcy issues...and you feel safer masterbating...
have you tried to incorporate your self love with your man?? Lots of men love it..
If your saying that you cannot go to work or eat or do normal things without self love before hand then that could also be something...
You should talk about with some one close..or if your that worried see your GP.
There is nothing wrong with masterbation as long as you can incorporate it into your relationships and daily routine...I am not sure what else you mean by it's affecting your relationships with men..??.please feel free to email me if you wish about this...otherwise try to acknowledge that its a natural normal womanly thing to do and you need to see that...its not a bad thing and you do not need to feel guilty...all woman regardless of parents or no parents around masterbate at some point..single and married woman do as well.. Good luck.