What do you think it is?!
Question:
What do you think it is?
I am trying to decide wether or not I have low self esteem or not... I don't think that I do though. I tend to stay by myself all the time because I feel like other girls are prettier or smarter than I am. When I hang with girls it just makes me feel really down about myself. My fiance's brother thinks that I'm not cute because I am of dark complexion and I do not have very many curves and my hair is very short. I feel that the way I look is an expression of who I am, but those around me (aside from my fiance) say that I would be more attractive if I were lighter, had bigger boobs, bigger hips and butt, or straightened my hair. I don't agree with them, but I also don't like the negative attention I recieve when I go out with female friends because I don't have any "goodies" so to speak...What do you think?
Answers:
That sounds like a self esteem problem and bad friends. You sound like you want some of the things your friends were blessed with but remember this little fact the bigger cheasted they are the worse the back problems consider yourself lucky if your on the smaller size. Don't let any one bother you about the way you look b/c there is only one opinion tha t counts and thats yours! Not even your fiance has a right to say "if only..." about you. He should think your the most beautiful creature to walk the Earth! Smile because you are a soon to be bride enjoy the life and love around you! God Bless you and your marriage