How to love myself????!

How to love myself????

i find that im really self aware i mean i can't even leave my house without make up when i go out i can't even look at my reflection or even mirrors because i don't wanna see myself because i feel like i know i look bad. I do feel quite depressed sometimes and worry about my weight and they way i look even though im not overweight i just always notice my flaws. i broke up with my ex a few months and even though i didn't exactly love myself when we were going out i didn't feel as worried about my appearance then i do now How can battle with my self hate and learn to love myself.

I have been there. Ive been loving myself so much that i ignored everybody elses feelings. In a way it worked well as i need to protect myself from being hurt. Recently i met mr right, now i am learning to love someone else other than me but at the same time not losing my identity.

To love yourself, especially after a break up, u need to get to know yourself first. When u wake up in the morning ask yourself simple questions like: how do u like your eggs? What kind of juice would u truly prefer to have?

Then.. go to the mirror and look at every inch of your face and body. Learn to love every single inch of it. You are not handicapped, be thankful. Say this out loud : i am what i am, take it or leave it.

if putting on make-up makes u feel good, only do it for yourself, do not do it to impress anybody. Go on, close the door, spend the whole day playing with make-ups. Try out different colour and technique.

If looking good makes u feel good, only do it for yourself, do not try to impress anybody.

think positive and do not be depressed easily. Dont appear weak and sad. Get up and ask yourself, what are your favourite music? whats your favourite songs? Play them, dance in your room and let go of all your unhapiness. dance for yourself. celebrate your moments alone.

When u are happy, the aura around you will change. If u are sad and angry, your aura will send bad vibes to other people and they will ignore u. But if u are positively happy, your aura will attract people and good luck to you.

Always have your own opinion on things. Do not let others decide for you. Start with small things like what you want to do over the weekend. Then maybe try to have an opinion on heavier stuff like politics and such.

dont ever hate yourself. love yourself before you can love someone else. Once u are able to do this, u will view life clearer. good luck okay.