How to get over the fact that I'm miserable about not finding love and crushing !
Question:
How to get over the fact that I'm miserable about not finding love and crushing on girls that I can never get?
I wake up every morning and feel sad about not finding love and losing the love that I should've got n be depressed about not having a father and that all my idols are dead.I feel so miserable and depressed I feel like ending it.I try 2 get over it but it just comes back and hit me harder.I try listening to music and do things that I like and many other methods.It worked but not for long and I feel miserable again.I really want to get over it and get on with my life but I couldn't.There's no therapist in my city and I don't know if I can afford it.What can I do to out these all behind me and live on?Please someone!I need some guidance!!!
Answers:
Don't even try to "get over" it. Embrace it. You're living life, and love (or the absence of it) is a big part of being alive.
You can ask yourself why you seem to be attracted to unobtainable girls. Could it be that there are companionable girls who, though they may not be as pretty/smart/rich/whatever as the ones you "can never get" (your words), are worthy of girl-friend status?
As for not having a Pa: That's rough, and I hate it for you. When you're done wallowing in pity and splashing about in your tears (look, I do it, too), maybe give the music another try. Or check out a movie. Why not start journaling? You were able to express yourself very well and make yourself understood here; I'll bet it even felt better to write it out. Give it a try, OK?
As for "ending it": Just try to get through today. See what tomorrow brings -- especially since tomorrow is Independence Day. Maybe use the hol as a new beginning for you -- your freedom from misery. I like that idea. You, too?