Adopted - Abused - Abandoned:Please give any advice(part two)?!

Adopted - Abused - Abandoned:Please give any advice(part two)?

I remember laying ontop of my father in the dark crying and scared. then i remembered my mother cming in and me running to her to comfort me.

growing up i never really trusted my father. he would always just stae at me like i was a piece of meat. as i grew older i would wear big clothing to cover up my body so he wouldn't look at me. one day as i was getting ready for work i was in my room naked getting dressed. i saw his eyes just looking at my naked body and i felt numb like i couldn't move a single muscle. i let that go until i saw a pair of my shorts in his luggage. this wasn't just any pair of shorts they were my pink shorts. i'm 5'4 and my father is 6ft tall and 300lbs. i confronted my mother aobut this and eventually she accused me of ruining the family. this hurt me temendously. i had spend so much time with her taking care of her. i didn't make it up, i didnt' want to hurt her, but it was hurting me much worse. i felt myslef getting more deppresed than ever.

This is such a sad but common situation. The wife is in a state of denial because she is aware of what is happening but is afraid to lose her husband and home. People in this situation seem to emotionally blackmail themselves into submission. In your case you are definitely the victim of your fathers obsession and your mother's denial. You don't say how old you are but, regardless, you must get professional counseling as quickly as possible. If you can not afford counseling then you need to check with you local social services agency. These types of situations can leave very deep scars if they are not addressed appropriately. At some point you may even start to blame yourself for HIS behavior. Please get some help as soon as you can...this situation will not go away on its' own and could destroy you, your mother and the rest of the family if left unchecked. Best wishes