What causes illusional, feelingsless love ?!
Question:
What causes illusional, feelingsless love ?
I have been chatting with a woman.We were talking on a irregular basis,sometimes a few days in a row,sometimes once a week.Conversations were short.We would be talking about this and that,but she would be adding smiles here and there.For some reason,I have been building up in my head that I like her.Even though she was from 7 hours of plane away from me,I was still making myself believe that she was liking me.
One day,she says she is coming to see me in my home town and will be spending a few days.When it happens,I see the contact is definately not what I had been thinking.For some reason,I still try to approach the "i think i like you" subject.She sees it coming, diverts it away and it was never brought up back.I afterwards learn that she was there for some work related congress and i feel that she just wanted some kind of tour guide to show her around.
Still afterwards I told another that this thing was real,that I wanted to give my heart to her, even though I wasn't truely feeling.
Answers:
You are reflecting your own feelings out onto someone else you don't even know. Internet is for chatting, not falling in love.