Fear of failure. . .?!
Question:
Fear of failure. . .?
Well, as my headline states, I have a fear of failure. . .and I'm starten to notice my patterns, especially with relationships. It is taking a tole on my current relationship, cause I'm starten to think my boyfriend is gonna leave me(even though he tells and shows me he loves me everyday). I cannot afford a therapist just yet, plan on getting one though. I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions on things I could do myself on how to conqure this fear?? I seem to quit everything I start. Thanks so much, I do give out best answers by the way. . :op Have a good day!
Answers:
well, fear of failure is a natural thing, but it is up to u that how much u allowed it to get on top of u. And one important thing that I hope will help u sort out things is to keep remember, whenever u looks at the nagative asspect of a thing and more importantly when it starts taking tole on u, your behaviour changes accordingly towards that negative asspect, and ultimately that fear makes that failure a reality.
So, the point is always look for the negative asspect and plan accordingly but never allow it to get on top of u.