Is it common to hate oneself???????????!

Is it common to hate oneself???????????

I was talking to my friend and mentioned to her that i really hate myself and she commented that was weird.

But doesn't everyone hate themselves??? I

am always wishing bad things upon myself, like sometimes i say i hope i get run over by a bus, is this weird?????? I just really hate being me, i'm pathetic

It may be common, but it is not good. Saying you are pathetic is really not good at all. Counseling can really help.It doesn't actually take very long to start on the right path. There is a lot of info out there on life skills and how to be happy. You deserve it, so go get it.

If you talk to yourself like that and treat yourself with that kind of disrespect, you will find others who will too, you will accept less than you deserve and wreck what can be a wonderful life. We all make stupid mistakes. It is how we learn. Get up, dust off, and go on to be a success.

If you treat yourself like that, you will live a self-fullfilling prophecy of being an underachiever, unhappy, and unfulfilled. It is not the life for you at all. You are bright and can love yourself. Please see a counselor, gain some insight into how to love yourself and live a great, successful life like you deserve. It is called cognitive behavioral counseling and it works in short order.

I don't know who put the idea in your head that you weren't to be loved and cherished, but those thoughts need to go. I am sure your friends find plenty to like--wonder why you can't.

I used to hate myself too, by the way. I didn't know it. I just went around sabotaging my life because I didn't think I deserved better.

Life has changed. I went to school. I got good grades. I found out I was pretty smart and that other people liked me fine.I took control over my future and made some good plans. I do things I enjoy with people that are enjoyable. I work hard, play hard and live like I am dying. I might not get a tomorrow. There is no more time to spend being a fool. No one will rescue you or save your life except you. Take the time and do it.

I want the same for you. Go see a counselor, get a plan going, and be the success you should be. In the meantime, be at least as good of a friend to yourself as you are to others and stop putting yourself down. Today was the last day you called yourself any names or devalued yourself.