Fear of men- please help fast.?!

Fear of men- please help fast.?

I would love to be in a relationship, but have this like innate fear of men. Its like whenever one shows me even a little bit of attention, I get all scared and think that they are only talking to me for one reason (you know which reason). I know that not all men are bad- I get that. I just wanted to know if anyone one out there has been there, done that, and got out of their fear of men. Please help- b/c I would love to have a boyfriend or even just guy friends, but I always jump to conclusions and get scared.

Hi there, i know EXACTLY how u feel, cause i feel the same. I dont know how about you, but i never had problem finding a boyfriend, because guys always liked me. I am a chatty person, so I never minded to talk with guy, but as soon as they showed me they liked me, i got all nervous, sometimes even unfriendly to them. I dont know why it is, but i really hate when someone likes me. Obviously it is nice to know, they you are atractive, but when someone shows interested in like going out , i always had problem with it. which is shame really, cause ive been on my own for 14 months now and im really sick of it. just today i was sitting in my room,having nice dinner, watching movie, but ON MY OWN. cant tell you how to get over that, probably if you meet someone, just go for it, without thinking about it,and you will see what happens.