How to gain confidence?!
Question:
How to gain confidence?
i am 14 and i have nop confidence. how do you gain some. i almost passed out today because i had to sing in front a group of people that i didn't know and i cannot go up to anyone especially guys without feeling like i'm about to puke. please help me!
Answers:
Hang out with your friends a lot so you have interesting things to talk about with them, and to tell anyone else you might meet.
Guys will be flattered if you talk to them, there is nothing to be afraid of. It should be easier for you if you have friends with you.
As for the singing in front of people, don't sweat it, there will always be someone worse than you, no matter how bad you feel you did.
Don't forget about anyone you meet. If you use instant messanger, just say hi, or if you see them in school or elseware, wave to them. Don't let them forget who you are, this will help you with talking to people.
If you make a goof out of yourself just laugh it off, people will see that you are easygoing, and they will start conversations with you.