Is being obsessed a good thing?!
Question:
Is being obsessed a good thing?
Okay. Its a really long story. But for short I have an obsession. Its with the Outsiders. I watched the movie and read the book over and over and over again. I can't seem to stop. I fell in love with one of the characters, too. So, I research them. I look up stuff about them and what movies the are in and everything! I even write letters to them. I just seem to do nothing else then look at them or think about them. I have pictures of them in my bed room and everything. I'm wondering if this is a bad thing. Is it natural or unhealthy. I'm so confused on how to stop. But I don't want to stop is the problem. Is it okay for me to be like this!?
Answers:
An obsession is only negative if it starts to interfere with other healthy things in your life, like your relationships with others, your health, your job or studies. If you are ignoring your friends over a crush on a fictitious character, well that may be a little unhealthy.