I dont really know what to do... help =[?!

I dont really know what to do... help =[?

its a long story, but to put it simply i used to date this guy. i broke up with him. he still likes me [apairently loves me] i kinda like him still. but i dont know if i want to go back out with him. he made a bad choice. i got so mad. and i told him i would never speak to him again. he still "loves me". i am slowly talking to him again but he seems so distant. i know i didnt overreact to what he did. my friends say i "under-reacted". he says he loves me still. i dont really know what to do. he is acting so weird...

Dan Savage has alot of good relationship advise for tricky situtations. See if you can email a question or get some of his published stuff online. From personal experience I completely understand. It took me 3 years of my life to let someone go. He made some very bad choices. What it finally came down to was ?Would I tell my son or daughter to dump him or keep dating him with that behaviour? The answer was obviously dtmfa... A good Dan Savage reference.