Does anyone else get nervous/sick when it comes to dating?!

Does anyone else get nervous/sick when it comes to dating?

or am I unique in this?

I hate when I start dating a new person. I get worried about them finding out my flaws, insecurities, and letting my heart go to a person who may drop me if they don't like my flaws. I am a very private person and hate when people know my flaws. I get kind of a lot of anxiety and worries when it comes to dating someone knew to the point that I can't relax and often analyze everything that he says or I say to him.
Anyone else get this? How can I just RELAX?

I am married now but I can relate to what you are saying. When I was dating I would actually feel sick from nerves. What you have to develop is a "screw it" attitude and not care so much. I know this is tough if you have a personality like ours but you can actually talk yourself into it a little bit. Just try to convince yourself that "so what" if some guy doesn't like something about you----there are plenty of things that you don't like about other people too. Try to have a good time and not put pressure on being perfect and if the date isn't great then "screw it". When you meet someone who is right for you they are going to love you with all of your flaws anyway.