What is this ILLNESS??? Explanatory Style???? HOW DO WE STOP THIS??!


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What is this ILLNESS??? Explanatory Style???? HOW DO WE STOP THIS??

HELP!
My wife and I have been married for 5 years... I am from the north where we are 'straight to the point" and clear cut. well my wife is from the south and things are done a little differently, much more talking and "beating around the bush"
her mother always seems to not like "our" simple and clear decision making
Her mother was emotionally and physically abuse as a child and has had been disappointed by nearly everyone in her life. She holds her children very near to her heart. Whenever her children would make any choices of their own her mother uses guilt and manipulation to make them feel bad.
Recently, My wife and I have made the decision to have both sets of parents stay at hotels when they visit.(as before her parents would stay with us) due to having LIMITED space(just had our 3rd child, and have small housing) . Her parents are asking "why we are punishing them? what they did so wrong? how hurt they are and how upset we have made them." grr .HOW DO WE STOP THIS?


Answers:

you are the answer to your own question

DON'T let any of your parents guilt you into anything you do not see fit for your family -- it is a hard stand, but the years to come will be easier once you have established that your house is not run/manipulated by guilt

good luck




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