I am going to BLOW UP!!!!!!! HELP? My wife is emotionally abused by her mom!!!!?!
Question:
I am going to BLOW UP!!!!!!! HELP? My wife is emotionally abused by her mom!!!!?
I will no longer stand by and watch them emotionally abuse their daughter.
recently we just had our third child. Her parents would always stay at our home in the past, but due to limited space we have now decided that both sets of parents will now stay at hotels if they choose to visit.
Her mother replied in email-below-
Couldn’t sleep until I wrote this. Let us know what you would like for us to do, we would love to come as planned but understand if not ok. You are the one dealing with everything not us , hopefully you will be able to come in August as you said. I can’t speak for your father.but, sure our feelings are hurt and we will get over it , oops I just typed we! We just want you to know that we are always here for you and the kids no matter what ,I apologize if I upset you, I kind of feel like I have to watch what I say and do with all of you anymore (sister-too) . I was hoping we were past all this.Let us know how not to cause any more heartache for you both-END
Answers:
independence and self control = looks like your doing good so far. Seperation would help.