Borderline Personality will not talk to me because I hung up on her?!
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Borderline Personality will not talk to me because I hung up on her?
We were having a pleasant conversation until I made a suggestion that she might consider making a rule concerning the two adult children that still live with her, clean up the micro wave oven when they mess it up. She brought up the fact that it was such a mess and how she spent most of the morning cleaning it up. She went off big time becoming mean and angry. Due to my not knowing how to react to such a mood change...said Oh my God! and hung up on her. I have only known her a few months and this was the second time I witnessed this sudden over the top behavior. I waited until the next day to call and check on her and she has avoided talking to me.It has been over a week now and I still have not had any communicaton with her. Seems that most of what I read...it's the victims of their outburst that does the breaking away. Your thoughts and help in me being able to understand this disorder will be greatly appreciated. She was so much fun, I miss her
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My ex-husband has borderline personality disorder, I spent 19 years putting up with his outbursts. My advice to you is RUN!!!