Identity crisis....uhg.........?!
Question:
Identity crisis....uhg.........?
how can i find who i really am. i know who i am physically, but not mentally. i just feel so confused.
Answers:
Finding yourself is definitely a journey. Also, it has a great deal with creating yourself instead of just finding yourself. You are a dynamic human being so just because you are one way now does not mean there is not potential for change.
In your search to find/create yourself reflecting on what's going on in your life is a good first step. Think about what you feel good about and what needs improvement. Just think about who you want to be and let yourself become it. Maybe your friend has a quality that you desire for yourself- try to figure out what makes that quality work for him or her and try to adopt that.
Don't worry if you don't find yourself right away, maybe that's just who you are right now. Know that you are unique and irreplaceable and have a gift that no one else quite has. Just love yourself for feeling whatever you're feeling and if you see room for improvement strive towards that.
Who you are also has some to do with who you are surrounded by and what you do: surround yourself with positive people and do what you love. Become who you want to be =)