A concern for confidence...?!


Question:

A concern for confidence...?

I think of myself as an increasingly independant young and attractive woman. But, lately I've been experiencing an increasingly significant amount of stress and fear with every promotion or raise in the paycheck. There are times where I get a sense of "stage fright" when talking to clients or co-workers (i.e. hands shaking nervously, speech impairment, strange eye contact...). What gives?! Has anyone experienced this with their first taste of independance? How can I make myself more assertive and confidant at the workplace?


Answers:

Remember when you told yourself that this is what you wanted? Now that it is here you are questioning your ability to deal with or handle it all. You knew then that you could do it you just need to remember that this is what you wanted.

We all have moments where we feel as though someone else is better or faster or better equipped to deal with things. You are in the drivers seat now and lots more is expected of you. A good book (albeit an old one) is "Swim with Sharks Without Getting Eaten" Business strategy and social savvy are excellent tools for you to focus on now.




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