Why do i feel im being prevented from living my life?, achieving my goals, being!


Question:

Why do i feel im being prevented from living my life?, achieving my goals, being prevented from finding the?

loving partner i want,the girl i want, im being prevented from moving away from england to the usa or canada, which i seriously want to do..
ive had bpd, have had it since 16, i await therapy, but i seriously feel theres a conspiracy against me, people are against me, and either 'they' the people, or something is keeping me here in britain, preventing me from bettering my life,& preventing me from moving away to where id like to move away to, like canada......i seriously, seriously do NOT, want to stay here in england.....i would like to work through my disorder which ive had half my adult life,& move away, somewhere distant like canada, achieve a little secure happy life for myself,& a loving girlfriend....but im severley depressed because all these dreams seem unachievable to me,& to far away to accomplish.. plus i feel, people, somebody is stopping me. ive been hurt alot by people throughout my life, & have suffered alot of mental trauma,so i dont trust anyone.im 30 now,never made

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3 weeks ago
any friends in life, and im sat alone, lonely, in my flat every night, dreaming of a better life, achieving my goals, getting my needs met........but i fear i can never make it happen


Answers:

you have to want to change.. if you sit and hope and do nothing to make the changes you need to do than you will be 100 still be were you are now.. how do i know i been there.. every one get hurt and don't use the i have bpd stuff.. man every one in the world has something that they say is keeping them form do what every.. you have to say this is what i want and this is what i going to do.. my wife she can not read or write she does so at a low 3rd grade level. but she wanted a commercial driver license and she has one why she memorize 500 question and answer so when she went to take the test she could answer the 20 on the test.. you have to cowboy up man and say what happen to me did and i am moving on.. you want a loving relationship you have to let go of the past and move on and grab on.. you want to move to Canada or USA well then what does it take for you to do that and let get with it.. don't sit and to the depression thing that a cop out.. you want some thing you go for it.. it not coming to you.. i do not know what mental trauma you went thought but man i went thought almost 4 yrs of Vietnam.. i was right there on the D M Z ZONE.. i saw many men die and then had to go pick up the piece.. ya i was messed up in the head and i wanted no part of the world.. and i tried real hard to make my wife leave me i tried drinking my way through it.. then one day i knew it was me taking back control or me leaving this earth for every.. i took back control and with the help of my wife i have a great life.. make up your mind man what do you want to look back and boo hoo over the past or get on with the hear and now and live life .. the past is gone man it is never coming back the future is what you make of it and today is what you have.. what is your day going to be like.??? get up and get moving on what you want..




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