Why am I such a jerk?!


Question:

Why am I such a jerk?

I tend to come off like a jerk sometimes, when I don't mean to. I might think something is absurdly obvious, where other people won't. Or, I'll think that the reason or cause of something is glaring, and I can't understand why others can't see it. Same with solutions to things. I don't mean to be like this, sometimes things are just so simple, and I have a hard time comprehending others' confusion. Consequently, i'll come off as a jerk. I hate this about myself. Any tips on how to be more understanding and less of a prick? I'm likable otherwise. Please don't think I'm generally a big jerk


Answers:

There are a couple of choices. First, say nothing and remove all doubt that you are a jerk or give no evidence you are. Second, listen carefully to others, and watch them be the jerk for a change. The power of observation is a wonderful gift, do not curse it;someday the rest will catch up to you and will always appreciate you for having it. Lastly, lower your expectations of yourself, stop trying to be perfect...it's overrated and annoying to most others. Good luck being your own best friend.




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