I don't like being touched..help?!

I don't like being touched..help?

i've been with my bf for over a year now, and lately i've been very distant [physically] with him. lately i don't want to be touched..AT ALL..he doesn't understand and it's hard to explain to him..i'm not looking for relationship advice..i just feel like it's more of a mental thing then just not wanting to be touched cause when he touches me i go absolutely crazy in my head, and it's almost like a feeling of clostraphobia..and when he touches me when i'm in that mood, the feeling stays longer..can anyone please tell me if this is a mental issue?? please, serious answers only..i'm hurting him and i can't help it..it's killing me, and our relationship :[ again..i'm NOT looking for relationship advice..

3 weeks ago
i totally know what you mean about the warmth..i can't stand that either..i hope i get over this soon..i've been like it for a few months now

3 weeks ago
it's not that i'm not attracted to him anymore or that i'm afraid of him wanting sex or anything..i mean, we're getting married next month..and it's not a sexual thing at all..i don't know..thanks for all your opinions..

I know your not looking for relationship advice, but there may be something in your relationship that is causing it. I had the same thing happen and it was a matter of months before we broke up. When he touched me i felt like i was going to be sick and now I am fine.