Why is he like this ?!


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Why is he like this ?

i've been with my bf 5 years , 4 mnths after we met he changed.he yells at me for no reason, everything he does is my fault ( he had a small car accident , he was driving the car and somehow it was my fault . he blames me for his anger issues.its my fault when he makes me cry. its my fault that he treats me like sh*t. hes very immature - instead of talking to me or dealing with a problem he will get very defensive and start yelling and throwing things , especially when i confront him . he ignores me for days to get his own way , then after a few days he snaps and goes crazy and the cycle goes on and on . he even goes as far as to threaten me to get his way . he got me preg 4 years ago and said if i didn't have an abortion that he would hurt me real bad , or hurt the child once it was born. i did want to keep it , after i got the abortion he then told me he would never do something like that and he just said it so i wouldn't have the baby. he said i was fat when i was 88lbs 5'2
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23 minutes ago
he's 27 and i'm 20 . he won't let me have friends. since being with him i have become agoraphobic and hardly ever leave the house, when i try to make friends , he threatens to kick me out on the street ( we're paying half each rent ) but i wouldn't be able to do it alone and i have no-one else and no family , and he knows that . when i ask him why he treats me this way , he threatens to break up with me if i don't drop the subject . its a fking nightmare i feel like i'm going out with a child .

20 minutes ago
the only family i have is my mum ( and i cant live with her because i have pets and she smokes and not enough room ) , and she loves him, when he treats me like sh*t he runs to her house and says it was my fault and she agrees with him. its so disturbing , why does he suck up to her ? why doesn't he go to his own mother ?

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3 weeks ago
i dont blame him for treating me like this, and i don't blame myself either , i'm way past that i don't feel sorry for myself. i just really want to know what is wrong with him mentally

3 weeks ago
lol when i think about it now, yes. but not when i was 15 , i was always more mature for my age i quit school at 14, got a fulltime job which i kept for 5 years i was very independant , paid for everything on my own ect . i just felt alot older than i was so age didn't really matter . and i never did like dating " boys " you would have thought a 27 yr old man would turn out to be more immature than a schoolboy lol

3 weeks ago
oops " who would have thought " not you would have thought , typo

3 weeks ago
we dont do any type of drugs or alcohol im a total health freak ,( would never touch something bad for my body ) and he's not into drugs or drinking, never has been .

2 weeks ago
thanks to everyone who took the time to read the long details and give an honest answer.. i appreciate it :)
x x


Answers:

Get away from that animal asap. If it means going to the womens shelter go but get away befor you end up getting hurt or even killed. I lost a baby 10 years ago to an abortion that was not my decision and it took me this long to learn how to leave a everyday normal life it hurt so bad I didn't want to live or anything and it still hurts but I can't see why any man would be like that its just sick and its murder because he decided to lay with you and when a real man lays with a women he takes on any responsibilty taht comes with sex.
If he would kill his own child why wouldn't he kill you you got to get away and stay away even if it means leaving everything behind and starting over your very young and its not the end of the world. Plus he treats you like a dog and keeps you on a short chain you got your own life to live. I'm very sorry for the things your going through I know it hurts and its hard to leave but your better off.




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