Help me I am deliberatly destroying my relationship!?!
Question:
Help me I am deliberatly destroying my relationship!?
As a child I was neglected by my parents and for that they took my little brother away long story short I have been depressed most of my life...anyways but when I got with my boyfriend it all seemed to go away and I became happier than I have ever been...but latley I have been pushing myself away from him and getting upset over things that were not that important I even will go so far as to sit all by myself and cry about my past . I need some answers fast please I dont want to lose him..
Answers:
It sounds like you need to see a psychiatrist. Is this the first boyfriend you've had and "pushed away"? If so, maybe you are just having a little trouble with adjusting to the idea of sharing yourself with/ depending on another person. Or perhaps you suffer from depression. True clinical depression (known in medical circles as major depression, to differentiate it from bad moods or cynical/pessimistic attitudes) can only be diagnosed by a physician after they have talked to you, performed a physical examination, and performed appropriate tests to ensure you do not have a physical disorder that might explain your moods (such as a thyroid disorder). If you find that you have problems with relationships, one diagnosis to consider is borderline personality disorder. Again, this can only be diagnosed by an appropriate physician (a psychiatrist), but you might want to get more information from your physician to see if you fit the profile of BPD. It is typified by particularly "stormy" personal relationships in which you fluctuate between loving, then hating, the other individual.
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/bpd.cfm...