How can i fix this??!
Question:
How can i fix this??
when i do something bad for example..3 yrs ago i said said my friend was not that cute to someone else and they told her and we haven't been friends since. she has probably gotten over it but i have not forgiven myself at all...i have a super hard time forgiving myself when i do things that bad..and i condemn myself to the worst of everything. i start to feel like i don't deserve anything good. i punish myself for several days but the guilt can last forever.
why am i so unforgiving..and what can i do to change that?
Answers:
i know its been three years and yes she should have gotten over it by now, but she hasn't.
no matter what you do or say she will never forgive u, she may say she forgives and that it no longer bothers her but it bothers her everytime she sees u.
just learn from ur mistakes and carry on..this is how we develope into good human beings..u can't take your every mistake so hard.mistakes are apart of life..live and learn..it'll make a good person out of u..the more mistakes the better the person.