Am I right?!


Question:

Am I right?

The issue I am having is between me and my mother. Lately she I cant stand her voice, It makes me tense up and I just cant be near her to long.

The problem is that she thinks Im rebeling because I am15. I have alway done what she has said, never talked back. I mean the kids from church curse like crazy, I never curse( although I have had unintentional slips) and she thinks taht I want to order her about. Maybe she expcets me to do so, and each day she is tetmpting me to do so. She nags about everything, to her, my room is always mess, It never messy, it gets dusty and I clean the dust, but it's never messy. TO her, my grades are never enough, this year I got so pissed I had a extream breakdown, I was shaking and a laughing for no reason, I let my grades drop, my frist F, My frist D and my 4th C I have ever had.I cant stand her, and just to think 3 more years till I leave home. Am I right about her being just to much, or am I in the wrong?

-Akio

Additional Details

3 weeks ago
Maybe I didnt make it clear about my grades, I didnt let them slip because I wanted them to When ever I took a test i couldnt think and home work just wouldnt seem to make sense. But When I helped people do there homework , I was able to do it right away and really fast.
My highschool counceler doesnt want to give me my classes because sher thinks taht I have been cheating. From othe student that have had her say that she's slightly rasist with hispanics. And I belive them because I had to thretn to drop out for my classes to get the way I wanted them.

And No I will not be serving you order right , you will be serving my dinner and driving my car As I ride in the back.


Answers:

There is nobody who is "right" or "wrong" in this situation, you guys just need to come to terms with each other. Tell your mother exactly what you just told me, except maybe talk about how much you appreciate her, you would just like a little freedom. Tell her that your grades are good enough, nobody is perfect. Obviously if it got to the point of extreme breakdown which led to an F, you need to get all of this stuff off your chest.

I'm 15 years old myself. I do get mad at my mom and do stuff to spite her, but I've always tried to be honest with her about things she says. Oh, and everybody wants to leave home at some point :).




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