Feeling socially rejected lately. Please advise?!


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Feeling socially rejected lately. Please advise?

I'm making all sorts of faux pax and so socially clumsy in recent months. It's not like I used to be all socialite-ty and all. But just that I'm either so dull, so out of sync when talking with people, or speaking at the wrong times, and stuff like that that I just don't try or care abut what people think of me anymore. I actually feel very rejected, like I can't find any friends, my old friends are out of touch, I can't keep acquantances, like I should keep my mouth shut forever to avoid embarassment. I feel I'm on different brainwaves with everyone -the popular girls, the nerds, the normal girls, jocks, churchcellgroup, family. What do you think I'm doing wrong, what should I do, and why is this happening to me? I'm just out of sync with EVERYONE. "Friends" are officially cutting me off, excluding me at lunch, avoiding talking to me. The real friends I have, I don't feel like talking to them anymore, coz I don't want to lose them and I don't have anything to talk about with them.


Answers:

Wow you sound like me. I think you just need to find and accept yourself for who you are. What I do is that I don't talk at all unless I really have to. I'm very opiniated so when I have something to say I say it. But for the most part I try to stay to myself because I don't feel like people understand me fullly because I have a totally different perspective on life. I don't follow the popular trend. I am my own person. if people don't accept me for who I am then thats their problem. I still strive to be the best that I can be. Just write down a few of your life long goals and try to make them come true. That's what keeps me somewhat motivated. fufilling my goals is my purpose in life. I also love to help other people who need help. Join a charity club or just participate in activities that requires helping other. There's nothing better than giving because you receive so much more in the end.

Hope this helps.




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