Hi everyone?!

Hi everyone?

okay, first can i get off sayin that i am a huge pothead that is trying to quit, it is my first 5 days, fisrt four were easy, but today its just like, well whatever, i know i can do it and i am, not smoke i mean, but see, im havin a problem, its with this girl, i just met her about a week and a half ago, and well i must say, she is pretty amazing, i almost got sent to arizona the other day, and she was there for me, and she is really sweet, im 21, shes 21, now the problem is, she has a child, should i let that bother me? when im with her nothing else relly matters, im not sure on what to do right now, cuz i dont want to smoke, and well shes out doing something, so any ideas on what to do with her and what i should do with myself to keep my mind off the blessed budda?

Ah, such a dilemma! I know it is difficult to quit something you have done for so long! You should find other things to occupy your time.... as with any habit, such as regular cigarettes one of the problems is the "habit" of reaching for and smoking the item, let alone the withdrawals. A VERY good avenue is also to search out support groups such as AA(Alcoholics Anonymous) or NA (Narcotics Anonymous). Trust me they can really help if you are truly dedicated to this cause. More power to you and I commend you on your life changing choice (for the better of course). Don't forget you have a wonderful new relationship to focus on, I truly wish you the VERY best of luck,,,,,you CAN do it!!!!Good luck and may God guide you and help you through this trial!