Is this a sign of mental illness?!


Question:

Is this a sign of mental illness?

I would bcome angry at my bf when we r in a crowded place & worse if there r misbehaving gals talking loudly. Sometimes I wld snap & feel I have so much energy I want to bash someone. Other times, I feel like crying & somehow the tears just got stuck..I feel so lost abt my job also..always thinking another job will suit me better..am i having mental problem?


Answers:

No. Based off of what you described, you don't have a mental problem. You sound like you don't like where you are in life right now. That you feel like you don't have any control over your own life. We ALL go through that at one point in our lives. We are the only ones who have absolute control in our own lives. We make the decisions today that will affect our future tomorrow. You're young, you have time to change that. But start now. Sit down and think of a big goal like buying a house or getting your degree. Then break that down into little bite sized tangible goals. Those you can tic off one by one and before you know it you will reach the ultimate goal. Like, picking schools based off your passion in life, calling a school counselor, enrolling in school, or saving $100 a paycheck, putting money in and IRA, buying stock and so on.

As for your relationship with your boyfriend and your emotional outbursts. Maybe you need to analyze that further. Has he cheated on you? Is that why you get mad when there are misbehaving gals around? Does he disrespect you by flirting with other girls in your presence? Does he treat you badly, emotionally? physically? Is there trust in your relationship...do you trust him with your life? heart? soul? You don't have to answer these questions to me, but you should to yourself. If you answered in the negative to any then you might want to find a better man. one who will love and respect you. They are out there...just sometimes a little hard to find.




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