Please help me?!


Question:

Please help me?

Im having some problems right now

I just got home from the hospital and I had surgery. The recovery has been going along ok I guess but I've just been miserable. I had some problems before the surgery but I thought I was pretty much over it.

But I've just been really sad and depressed. I can't deal with the idea of things coming out of me. I got the IV out of me and some other things but I have this catheter coming out of me and i thought it was coming out of me on thursday but its not coming out for 3 weeks. and it just set off all this other stuff, all the medication I think, and I'm so depressed,

I cant feel good about the recovery or anything. I feel like I lost all my friends last year, and i completely hating myself now, I want to talk to them. but I dont know what to say or if I can say anything to them.

i feel like I should just kill myself, like I wasn't made for this world. ive never been this depressed i cant do it anymore help me


Answers:

Okay, so you've got a lot on your plate now. Slow down, take some deep breaths, you'll get through this rough time. As far as talking to old friends I feel the only thing you can do is to take a chance and give one a call. Tell them you were thinking of them and wanted to talk and catch up. Don't worry about what they are thinking of you. As far as your depression is concerned it is natural to feel this way after having surgery and feeling really different. Just know that in time this will pass and your recovery will move along. Please contact one of your doctors/nurses to let them know how you are feeling so they can examine you and maybe you might get some relief from an antidepressant for now. Remember your recovery is very important so keep your thoughts positive and remember that you will be back to yourself in a short while.




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