Why Am I not Affectionate to Humans, but I am to my CAT?!
Question:
Why Am I not Affectionate to Humans, but I am to my CAT?
im serious this is no joke, i barely let my parents or sibling hug me, i dont like hugs , i dont like being touched, and i BARELY SAY "I love you" NO I was never raped or molested before!
but im affectionate to my cat, cuz shes soo cute,
i rub her belly and hug her alot and kiss her head..and i say 'ilove u'
but i barely hug my parent, the last time i hugged them was many years ago.
its like i dont like human affection
i'm 16, my brother makes fun of me
he said ''I wonder what your gonna be like when u get a boyfriend''
which is true when i think about it, probably thats why i dont care to have one
so isnt this kinda normal? just my personality?
Answers:
i am 29 and have always been that way my parents never where ones to dote out affections i knew they loved me sure we just didnt do the lovey dovey stuff. now i have kids and a hubby and pets i pet my pets rub bellies and such i hug my kids good nite but as far as lovey dovey stuff no i dont do it i am happy my family is happy so i wouldnt worry too much you are fine.. besides pets are so much easier to love no yelling or demands just love and food of course lol