Stop vicitimizing myself after molestation?!
Question:
Stop vicitimizing myself after molestation?
been a victim so long unable to stop vicitimizing myself and need help to change the vicitim mentality
Answers:
You may need some counselling before this can happen. I've been in a very similar situation and have come out the other side....there is light at the end of the tunnel. You need to come to terms with the things in your past which are affecting you're life. You have to deal with them....if you push them to the back of your mind....you won't be able to progress with your life....confront them in every sense....if you don't know how to....you may not be ready....see someone who can help. Once you've let it out and dealt with it....you will be able to move on, and find some new hobbies and activities that you enjoy.