Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?!

Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?

Recently, I had a job offer that was more money (25% + more)and promotion. Because of greed of getting more money than the original offer, I held back. Because of my mistake, the deal fell through and the employer hired someone else. This has been really bothering me. It has been nearly three months now and I can't get past this. I cannot even focus on my current job and my family. I don't know what to do. I feel like I missed out and it's bothering me beyond words. I have never felt like this before. Call it crazy, but I sometimes even get to tears. Help! How can I overcome this? How would you rank this in terms of a regretful life event? Thank you for your help.

Hi:

You have to find some way to let that go. If you don't as you have been the last three months it is going to sit inside you and fester and fester and turn into something that is not even remotely close to what the situation is.

It is also going to play a role on your health by stressing over this issue. You will start to have health issues maybe headaches, stomach aches and if you don't let this go you may even fall into a depresion.

I understand that it was a substantial raise and promotion and who doesn't that especially for your family, but remember All things happen for a reason. Maybe better things are ahead. Money (although nice to have) is not your first priority. Your first priority is to you and your family. Don't loose site over that as many people have done, are doing and will do.

Be safe and be well