About my appearance; Are there pro. judgers that judge your purely on looks, and!
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About my appearance; Are there pro. judgers that judge your purely on looks, and also more stuff, plz help...?
I am wondering if there is such thing as a pro. appearance judger who can judge you purely on your looks. I know its bad and i absolutely hate how that's how most of the ppl marry/fall in-love w/ someone (media provokes this too) but im getting so depressed over it. I know i look ugly (well im pretty sure), i just don't know whats exactly wrong w/ me, and i want to find out and fix it by any ways peossible. I might be being a lil harsh on myself, i might not, but i just NEED to know where i stand like on a scale 1-10 or sumthin. I feel like this is the only way i can be happy again. Already lost most of my friends from it and my self-esteem/ confidence is horrible. I have (or at least had) a few girls that were friends, but im sure thats all they would want to be, if i can't fix these things, my depression will prolly worsen, dont suggest psychologist b/c i know this is the thing that is bothering me and i know this is the only thing that will make me better, help please?
Additional Details3 weeks ago
Also, if someone is a pro judger, i guess i can email a pic to you or sumthing....and i wish, looks werent significant, but they are (to person who posted) good answer anyways though...
Answers:
Quit putting so much focus on where you are going wrong. Next, if you don't like putting so much emphasis on what you wear or how you look then don't. Quit trying to rush relationships, you aren't ready for one, painful and lonely as that may sound. Take some time and learn to enjoy being yourself first. If you want to meet people find something you really like and take a class with other people who like what you do. Always remember there is nothing wrong with you. You just don't do the same things everyone else does and or see things the same way they do. It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. Just means you aren't just like everyone else, uncomfortable, but a good thing.