Feel like im going crazy!..Any help would be great?!
Question:
Feel like im going crazy!..Any help would be great?
Here goes..Im a married male 36 years old..recently been having trouble finding steady work, moneys tight,broke.
This has been the story of my life.
I cant keep a job for more then a few days/months depending on the job.
Now as of recently i felt a change in me and my personality for the worst.
I have been depressed fora bit now but now im Depressed and i dont trust my wife, i always think shes talking about me or cheating on me . This is a new thing for me ..Im acting strange checking up on her watching her, nervous/anxiety/worried. My wife has assured me not to worry but it dont help. I get mad at her, No matter what she does i suspect her talking bad about me or cheating. I even get super jealous when she talking to other girls.
I have never been this insecure.
Im angry all the time and 24/7 thinking about what my wife is up to...When in fact i dont think shes doing anything to me...is this a disease?...Please help
Answers:
it's kind of normal for someone suffering from depression and anxiety...the symptoms manifest themselves differently in different people...this is one of those steps i tell people to watch for because it can grow bigger and limit other things in your life...for instance it can develop where you don't want to leave the house...don't want to leave your wife...therefore creating even more problems for you...i do suggest going to your doctor and seeing if he can help...usually they can prescribe an antianxiety/depression medication which will eleviate these problems...the anxiety of not having a job can promote all of this...but you need some help to get over it so you can get on with your life...you do need to find work...but becareful because it sounds like you are setting yourself up to fail in your employment attempts...get something you like and will stick with...something that has some growth potential...that should help...even if it is part time at first...you don't have to eat the whole apple in one bite if you get my drift...