Im 14 and really depressed. Help?!


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Im 14 and really depressed. Help?

Im 14 and ive been depressed for 3-4 years. Its been the worst this year, i cant handle it. I have never told anyone anything, except for my parents which i went to twice, but when i told my mom she didnt take me seriously because i have anything a 14 year old could need. The thing is its not a material reason i have depression. I feel like my future is going to be crappy, alone, and dark. No matter how hard i try the ideas of my future keeps coming back. And yes i am depressed, because happy people dont wake up every morning sad before a thought can go through their head. Im a very religious person so thinking about god, praying, and all that stuff somewhat helps when my depression gets bad. The reason my depression got worse in the past month or two is becuase (This may sound really stupid to you guys) my xbox broke, and i used to play with my friends online which would get my mind off the world and i could be anything I wanted to be in a video game. thxs for reading

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4 weeks ago
i kinda made my self sound like a fat *** in the last part, but i do play sports. And i only played it at night and in the morning some times becuase thats when all my thoughts rush in my head.


Answers:

i am have similar issue as you. i hated my childhood . iam now 13. i ve been even self-harming my self. i have seems to be in a stress and depression cycle since i am 8. my stress and depression problems comes around once in two years.
In my recent events, i know i cant keep my depression as a secret anymore. i am not eating anything lost weight, cant sleep,, i isloated my self I can not stand the depression anymore so reached out and try to get help. I didnt go to my parents beacuse they always ignores me and dont take me serious enough. so i told my form tutor. She helped me a little bit by talking but i have a personality of taking peoples emtions on board. i felt even worse about myslef because if any thing happen to me she will get the blame cos of what the law says. I am doing extremely well in school, but it was just a distraction from my own real problems. I cant concentrate in class and feel like i am failing all the time. i am 13 and i cant even picture my self doing GCSE. I feel like i dont deserve to be in this world.
I belive that your Xbox is your passion at least it distract you for now, Try to do thiings that u like , i dont want you to become me (self harming).
Try to not think about god. You could be relying on your religious faith too much. cos if u believe the existance of go d but in real life God existance is not definet. Try to think about your good times. Tell people who u know and you about this because talking does help. but make your choices carefully make sure it doesnt causes you more problems or feeling even worse ( i like me). Cry when you feel like it dont hide cos iit just make the tesion worse.




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