I want my life back, what the heck happened to me?!

I want my life back, what the heck happened to me?

Over the course of 3 years I gained 80lbs. I know its alot and now im really working on my weight. Problem is, everything in my life has seemed to shift. Its like me and one of my females friends switched places. I had a good man, good job, nice body, and wasnt happy because i was immature. now i have the knowledge and not the same possessions. I use to get so much male attention, good guys too, now i only can date jerks. Is it just my weight, can weight can really alter your life so badly. or am i cursed. Every turn i make seems to turn out bad. I dont know what to do. I want to be healthly, in all areas of life, have a good relationship when im ready, and free myself from debt. i feel like im losing myself and soon the old me is going to be a distant memory. anyone have any words of insight or ever been in this situation and got out of it?

Often when people are depressed they project that image which in turn attracts other people with bad self esteem. You need to concentrate on losing the weight since it seems to be holding you back from being happy. Once you accomplish that goal you will have your self respect back and will be able to tackle anything. Every time you want to eat something and have a pity party get up and walk instead. I work at a YMCA and have seen many women pull themselves out of a rut. You won't even believe the energy and positive attitude you will get.