Why don't i ever feel love if somebody fancies me i feel annoyed and want to get!

Why don't i ever feel love if somebody fancies me i feel annoyed and want to get away?

i have been asked do you have a patner
i replied no
sometimes the questioner replies why not?
i say i'm not interested and dont want anyone
nobody has ever believed me.
i am under care of a mental health team could my personilty disorder be what makes me unlike everybody else eg wanting and looking for love

4 weeks ago
Dr Rajeet
lol

Hi there, I have just read the response from Dr R, which I thought was completely wrong, unnecessary and potentially very damaging. I would like to say that whether you identify as gay or straight is completely irrelevant, the question being asked was about relationships in general, regardless of who those relationships were being formed with.
To deal with the topic at hand, despite the obvious cliche, it is very difficult to love someone else, if you aren't able to love yourself. You have not stated what type of personality disorder you have been diagnosed with, therefore it is difficult to generalise, but with most personality issues, self-esteem plays a big part in our ability to form satisfactory and meaningful relationships with others, whether they be sexual or otherwise. I would suggest that you need to find things that make you feel better about yourself, preferably things that involve some form of contact with other people. I'm not sure how well you tolerate the company of others, but it might possibly be worth asking your mental health team if they could give you some communication/social skills input, if you thought that might help.
Lastly, there is nothing wrong with being single and you should not feel pressurised into a relationship, just because society dictates that this is what is "normal". Ultimately, you have to do what is right for you and that might be not having to deal with someone else (which to be honest, relationships aren't as easy or as straightforward as they are cracked up to be! It takes a lot of hard work, commitment and compromise).
Anyway, I wish you all the best in whatever you choose, but do what is right for you at this point in time. There is always time to chage your mind...

Take Care.