Help me please?? Should I be concerned??? Serious answers only please??!
Question:
Help me please?? Should I be concerned??? Serious answers only please??
My aunt wants my mom and I to move to her farm in Missouri. While talking to my aunt I have noticed that she keeps saying she doesn't want anyone to know where her farm is and that she is having some difficulty with her own three adult children. I am afraid my aunt is indirectly wanting me to take the place of her own children and I feel as though she has the intentions of taking advantage of my mom and I. I have PTSD and ADHD so, I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if I should just let this all go and move in with her. Please help me. This is frustrating me in a very bad way.
Answers:
When in doubt, don't. You may be overreacting, in which case, oh well. You didn't do it, and life goes on. But if you ignore that inner voice, and it turns out your "red flags" are right, then you will be stuck in a situation that could be damaging to all of you, and could hurt people emotionally, financially, etc. Go with your gut, unless you can really trust your mom's wisdom and she feels good about it, then maybe consider her thoughts in your desicion.