How can i get over my fear of speaking infront of people?!


Question:

How can i get over my fear of speaking infront of people?

i am sooo super shy and don't like talking to people face to face..i have eye contact problems too..any advice??


Answers:

YES I GOT SOME ADVICE TO GIVE YOU I AM A SINGER.I ALL WAYS HAD STAGE FEAR,BUT NOW I HAVE LEST BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE TO LOOK IN PEOPLE EYES BUT I AM NOT AFRAID TO MAKE EYES CONTACT WITH ANY BODY NOW.THE FIRST THING I DO BEFORE I GO TO SING WELL I DO EXERCISE FOR MY VOICE THAT IS NORMAL FOR SOME THAT IS GOING TO SING,AND WHEN THIS IS DONE,WELL I DO SOME A BIT EXERCISE BUT NEVER HARD EXCESSES CAUSE THEN I WILL COME ALL SWEATY AND DON'T NEED THAT.WHAT I NEED IT LIKE YOU OR ME TO BE CALM FOR ALL MOST 15 MINUTES.AND WHEN I GO TO SING I SAKE MY SELF A BIT NOT HARD JUST CALM.AND THEN I TAKE A FEW BREATH THEN I GO ON STAGE.THEN FOR ME I PUT MYSELF IN A SCENARIOS THAT MEAN WHEN I SING I PUT MYSELF IN THE SONG AND THEN ITS OK FOR ME BUT THAT IS FAST SONGS,WHEN I HAVE TO SING A SLOW SONG WELL I PUT MYSELF AGAIN IN THE SCENARIOS AGAIN.BUT WHEN ITS A SLOW SONGS AND ITS REA LY LIKE A TENDER SONG I HAVE TO SING AND LOOK AND LOOK IN THE EYES OF SOME PERSON,CAUSE THIS IS THE ONLY WAY YOU COULD SING VERY SENTIMENTAL SONGS.OR IF IT HAD HAPPEN TO ME I GET IN TO MY EMOTIONS.BUT YOU HAVE TO DO SIMPLE EXERSICE AND CALM ONES AND BREATH IN AND BREATH OUT.THEN WAY YOU GO ON STAGE I GUESS WELL WHAT YOU COULD DO IS TO LOOK IN ANY ONES EYES CAUSE YOUR NOT SINGING YOUR TALKING IN FRONT OF PEOPLE,YOU CAN'T LOOK AT JUST ONE PERSON EYES CAUSE THELL THINK THAT YOU TALKING JUST TO HER OR HIM YOU HAVE NO CHOISE YOU HALF TO LOOK IN EVERY BODY EYES CAUSE YOU NOT TALKING JUST TO ONE PERSON IT THE HOLD CHABANG YOUR LOOKING TO NEVER LOOK IN ONE PERSON EYES CAUSE THAT IS NOT POLITE OR IF YOUR MOM OR DAD ITS THERE WELL TO REASURE YOU YOU COULD LOOK AT THEN FOR A FEW TIME BUT NOT ALL WAYS LOOK AT THEN CAUSE THAT WOULD BE A MISTAKE AND IT DEPENDS WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT.SO ALL WAYS LOOK CALM CAUSE SOME PEOPLE CAN SENT THAT.OR YOU THINK IT WAS YOU WHO WERE SITTING IN THERE PLACE.OK HOPE I HELP YOU A BIT.




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