I am haunted?!
Question:
I am haunted?
Every time I hear sad music, I am constantly reminded of my not-long-dead cat. I am 16 and male and when my other pets died, I wasn't affected, but I lately haven't been at all myself - often I feel shaky and scared for no reason. Also, today, my doctor told me I was 172cm instead of 173cm - am I shrinking?
Answers:
That happened when my dog died. I had had him for years, and it was really hard to get over him. Eventually, you will get over your cat. There's really no particular way to speed up the process. The shaking could be depression, or maybe even dehydration if you've been crying a lot. It could also be the feeling of emptiness. The scared feeling could come from witnessing a death, and could come from the emptiness you might feel towards your cat suddenly never being there as well.
As for the "shrinking", different measuring devices may give you a different height. I'm 4'11" 1/2, but sometimes I'm counted as 5'0", and once I've been mistaken as 4'10". Don't worry, you're not shrinking.
I hope everything gets better. Try to do stuff to keep your mind off of your cat. Listen to happy music instead, or watch tv, or get involved in something. Good luck =)