After sex, do you ever find yourself completely detached from the person you had!

After sex, do you ever find yourself completely detached from the person you had it with?

Like you dont want to cuddle, and you just want to turn back the clock and act like you didnt have sex with that person? I hate it, and wonder why I feel that way. I wonder if im even capable of being in a relationship.

4 weeks ago
yea rev i do find myself askin that question, if it was worth doing it with the person in the first place. exactly.

Well, no. Sometimes I don't want to cuddle at all because it's annoying and I'd rather go grab a pizza or do it again! But, act like I didn't have sex? Nah, sex is a fun activity and nothing more. It doesn't change the way I think or feel about a person. Perhaps you have some sexual guilt or other issues surounding sexuality? For now, I think it might be a good idea for you to stop having sex for awhile and maybe start journaling your feelings and thoughts about sex. Answer these questions: What is sex? What does it mean to you? How does it make you feel to have sex with someone? Why have sex? What do you think about people who have sex? People who have sex with you? etc. Read through your answers and try to define the source of your post sex feelings. Then reason with it. Who do you want to be? How do you want to react? How should you react? Remember, cuddling isn't needed after sex. Not every man or woman wants to cuddle and there's nothing wrong with that, but if your feelings are disturbing you greatly, you need to find out why and work on it.