Fear of being abandoned!?please help?!

Fear of being abandoned!?please help?

i have a bf and he is really in love with me and i am with him,we have never had a fight or anything,everything is really perfect,but he still has fear that i will leave him,he has dreams of me disappearing and him not being able to find me all the time,whenever i dont answer the phone because i am sleeping or something he thinks that i am angry with him and that i want to leave him,whenever i am in a bad mood or nervous for really no reason,just a bad day,nothing more,he thinks that its because he did something or i am bored with him or something like that.you understand what i am talking about?i keep reassuring him that i love him,that i will never leave him etc etc and he is happy the moment i say that but then he starts acting insecure again.how can i assure him that i really DO love him because it hurts me to watch him like that?please help me and thank you

Ask him what happened in his past relations. If he tell-es you then you have something to work with. What your doing is obviously not working and tattooing his name will only work against you, that will make him even more insecure he may accuse you of doing it just to shut him up. So just ask what it is that will make him understand that you want to be with him and only him. But at the same time let him know this is not a healthy relationship for either one of you all he is doing is adding undo stress to a good thing so don't blow it by whining about wanting to leave. If he continue to whine then give him an ultimatum either he slows his role or you both may need a break from each other I'm sure he will see thing's your way after a reality check has set in but be strong at the same time be sensitive to his feeling's, just don't show to much or you may be stuck with a crybaby for good...good luck.