Seeing the people that used to bully, doing well for themselves - makes me depre!
Question:
Seeing the people that used to bully, doing well for themselves - makes me depressed.?
These are the people, have such good careers, with internet blogs about their world travels and the party fun lifestyle. It makes me feel so sick, that the bullys that made my life hell, are doing so well for themselves.
Whats worse, is that i have turned out to be what the bullys wanted me to be, an failure to society. They still don't realize how much hurt and pain they caused me. And how so unconfident of a person i am.
Why, is it bothering me so much? These are the people that made me become a loner. Which i still am. They seem so happy and very lucky in their lifestyle, they have splashed on the internet. To only see them again, is surely showing how much i am bitter and twisted about them all.
Answers:
Where did you see them? Facebook? Myspace? Know that what ever you see there...THEY posted themselves. The are projecting an image they want to project..they are trying to look popular, cool etc. hell...you could do that too, if you wanted to make a page that was full of pictures of you smiling sourrounded by hot chicks etc. Any one can. I think it's more important here that you stop comparing yourself to these people, and start focusing on what would make you happy. To label yourself a failure to society is very harsh and most certainly untrue. being bullied can leave a mark on your self esteem, think about speaking to a professional who can help you get passed that and start working on making a great life for yourselF. You deserve one...besides...why sit there sulking, being what the bullies say you are, show 'em they don't know squat about you, start having some fun!