I dont know what to do... very long ???!


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I dont know what to do... very long ???

my bf is in so much stress.. i took him to the doctor.. he did blood work the doc thought it might be thyroids.. but no the blood work came out ok.. work stress and ex stress.. she is so bad that i wont.. cant .. same thing allow him to bring his and her children here.. when ever we have them she would call days later and complain .. everything was fine until the girls.. ages 5 and 6 liked coming over here.. but when she got them home she would grill them what you do .. what they say.. and the last straw came when she said she was having a house watched.. so he takes them to his moms house/// well his mom is sick a lot so there are missed weekends.. and everytime there is one .. she calls .. like 10 or 15 times.. a min a part...see he dont want to answer her at those times.. so she gets mad.. i understand that the kids are crying to see dad..but i can not deal with her..and her watching my house or having it watch..now i told him i was going to change my number.. but later told him

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4 weeks ago
that it was up to him about the number.. but he cried all week end... drank all weekend..the doc put him on wellburin and xanak.. i know i spelled it wrong..

4 weeks ago
and dont say that they may be my step children one day.. she affects me the same way.. i missed a day of work because she got me so stressed out i reached for the same bottle...

4 weeks ago
mommasboy your understanding me

4 weeks ago
enH ... I understand what your saying.. but i can not even see that woman.. with out getting mad.. i tried .. really but she is just so set in her ways.. she is like my .. and he had me watched for 19 yrs.. i can not go back into that even if it means losing some one that i love.. i let this woman come here and approve my home..when my bf dont even know where his ex and children live...promise her and kept it that we would not drink when they were over..and believe me with his stress and mine that is hard to due

4 weeks ago
she is like my EX


Answers:

If I'm understanding you correctly your boyfriend has children with another woman? This woman is harassing you? If this is the case, perhaps your boyfriend needs an attorney and a mental health counselor. An attorney can help set up visitation schedules and can deal with the harassment (with police help). A mental health counselor can help him learn ways to cope with the mother of his children and her extreme behavior. The attornery may be able to mandate that the mother get therapy as well. Prayers are with you!




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