Unhappy.. stressed.. crying ..?!

Unhappy.. stressed.. crying ..?

i am very unhappy. my dad seems to disown me. i feel like im not wanted anywhere, all i want to do is cry. the things that made me happy before i dont care for. my boyfriend seems to cheer me up. but then i go right back to being upset. i havent started my period yet and i am scared i could be pregnat. and it stressed me out even more that it hasnt came yet. even tho i took a pregnancy test that said negative. im still upset about everything. i dont know if i am just pmsing horribly because i have cramps or what. but i dont like this feeling.

4 weeks ago
see the thing is , i cant go to the doctor without telling my parents and if i tell my parents they will flip. im 16.

4 weeks ago
i dont drive. and im grounded.
what am i supposed to do have
my boyfriend take me to planned parenthood?

This is a hard situation. Have you been diagnosed with clinical depression or something of the like? If not, you should seriously think about making an appointment with a psychiatrist to get yourself checked out. There's definitely no shame in it; I first went to a psychiatrist at age 11. They diagnosed me with clinical depression and Asperger's Syndrome. What I find helpful is going to a therapist once a week or so, and taking medicine prescribed to me by my doctor.

I'm not sure why your dad is disowning you, or seeming to. Do you have a mother to talk to about it? She may be able to provide some insight. If things are very stressful at your house, see if you can stay with extended family or friends for a few days so everything can cool down.

As for being unsure about being pregnant, think about what you would do and what would happen if you were. Would you keep the baby (either with yourself or birth it and then give it up for adoption) or would you abort it? Would your parents automatically kick you out of the house, or would they try to help you? I know it's hard to think about, but it's good to have everything thought out for if you end up in a tough situation. If your period hasn't come for a week after it's due, and there's a possibility of pregnancy, definitely go to your doctor. Yes, he'll probably tell your parents, but it's better to know and to be healthy about it than to be unsure and making yourself sick with worry.

I hope things get better, and feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to.